When you begin rebuilding your life, you will have several different people or opinions vying for a spot. You may think that some are not important, but they are, more than you know, and they know. There will be some who will come just to observe. Let them. Some will come to criticize. Ignore them. Some will come to discourage you. Shun them. Some will come to participate. Vet them. Others will come to invest. Know them. Still other will come to enjoy it afterwards. Show them. All of the efforts or input of others will have some measure of impact but harness it all for the good. Whatever you do, learn how to harness it all, the good and bad, to keep your life moving in the right direction. They are all part of the equation, and each one will have a different impact. But your focus must not be on them, it must be on the One, Jesus Christ, the Master Builder, the Author and finisher. Build according to His Blueprint (the Bible). Allow the Holy Spirit to work out the details of His plan. Don't quit, and don't procrastinate. When the Lord is in charge of the building, it always comes to completion.
Blessings!